if you keep getting the same answers you hate, try asking new questions. seek new ways to do the things you already love. look at it upside-down. pay attention to your dreams! even if you don't believe in prophetic dreams or anything like that, lots of scientists think that dreams are a way we process our experiences and thoughts and, in sometimes nonsensical ways, problem-solve. our subconscious recognizes and records things we don't. consider what's in-between. widen your peripheral vision.